The purpose of religion is to foster cohesive societies where every individual feels secure, regardless of their religion, race, ethnicity, or other unique identifiers.
God has designed creation to function effectively. Consider the planets, trees, herbs, and shrubs—all have performed their roles precisely for millions of years. However, one thing that God did not program is our free speech and freedom to think.
This freedom can create tensions between spouses, families, communities, and nations. Still, it can also lead to peace and joy in relationships, family harmony, and unity among communities and countries.
We have the choice to be peacemakers or to contribute to our own destruction.
If your faith is causing friction between you and others, take the time to study it on your own; perhaps the clergy is misinterpreting the wisdom of loving God. Ultimately, you can find peace by freeing yourself from tension, ill will, and hatred toward others and achieving peace of mind.